Page 139 - One, well what did I make of that! A photo of me and dh, can two become as one! To a certain extent, yes. You need to work together to make a relationship succeed, when children come along, you need to be in unison about their upbringing. You get to know what the other is thinking, how they are feeling, how they will react to something! You know their likes and dislikes. But, you must retain your own identity, your own self to be truly a happy person! To keep the relationship healthy you each need your own interests, hobbies etc, but need to take an interest in each others. So although people tend to treat a couple as one person, never forget they are one plus one!